Marriage: Human made psychological prison

 

The concept of marriage has to do with a man and a woman bonding together to produce a legacy, the human life has limited access to life, to continue that they have to create life, build it together, if possible make a mark that will assist their 'creation', this makes people panic on finding 'the one' which leads to alot of mistake, they always forget humans are naturally deceptive, you can date someone for 10 years and not still know the true intentions of the persons soul, the reason is because there's a target to be met, just like man's ambition, marriage is also one. Another narrative is for economic gain, inheritance, definitely not for love, I've seen so many cases where there's always fight in the marriage, the man looks back sheds a tear and ask 'where did I go wrong, or a woman packs out of the husbands house, goes to another place, the emotional torture sets in, where did it all go wrong? It's the psychological belief of humans that theres someone for everyone, the desperation of wanting to reproduce without being judged, the psychological torture from friends getting married. Marriage in my opinion is a successful manmade attempt to psychologically lock down humans lust, set down rules that you abide with in form of oaths, which locks either the man and the woman in forever bondage, there's no marriage in this world that's perfect so why do we do it then, because of a rule, the basic flow of life? Who makes the rules, the gods or man, After a divorce what literally happens, you go back to what you are trying to avoid, you co-parent, the name is only given to make it seem fine, the human brain has that ability to make something seem pronouncingly fine with words, co-parenting is one of them, while in reality it means you raise your kids alone, that's just the fact, as a man you can have the weekend off with your kid, and as the woman you have the week with your kid, what do you call that, 'co-parenting' but look at the real view here, you're doing what you were trying to avoid, the unlucky, cowardly minded people will stay in the torture endure it for their kids, and it will serve as a lesson to them, that will set the kid straight, infact they might not live to tell the tale, it could turn into a murder mystery, so many cases of that has happend, human made rules aren't perfect, there's always a flaw, yes there can be love at first, but what carries marriage is pity, and care, a man can be so humble to make sure things work with a woman with the same intellect and agreement, that's why you see old married couples on Instagram, it isn't perfect they intelligently carried it, and I'll be honest 1/70 marriages arent like that, 50% of marriages are living under a rule, they might not be happy, but religion plays its vital role by telling them it's for better for worse, why do you think that rule is there, for better for worse, is it the bible or the man made rule, they know, they know it gets worse, the emotional damages both a man and woman endures in marriages makes you question why there are marriages.

Marriage is a prison, a prison you cant escape, a bond that grows sour as you grow older, there's always a problem, there always is, its not anyones fault but that's how life is, ambitions change, people change as years grow people change, endurance plays its part, I personally can't advice people to get married cause all the benefits can still be gotten when you're single, it's an agreement, get someone to also agree with you, know your intentions and the result sets in, it's just like prostitution, (made this example cause of how immoral the world is, they will easily understand my point) you make your intentions known, make payments, then plans are in place, that's how life is, just know the genes you want, that's what you should look out for, I'm not gonna talk about genes now, that's another topic for another time, my point is marriage is an agreement, so why not also make that agreement with a 'partner' and implement it, once implemented all goes well, look at gays, they get married, look for a sponsor, pay her to carry their eggs till it turns to pregnancy, give birth and start raising, that's life, the beautiful circle of life, not put yourself in an emotional torture, be more versatile withher type of ambition, the ambition to reproduce freely without being judged this  your thoughts, marriage is simple minded, filled with desperation, disappointment, and if it gets worse death.

 These are my opinions, and thoughts, I love playing with the versatility of my thoughts.