Marriage: Human made psychological prison

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Hurt is a negative emotion, so why do some people easily get emotionally hurt, everyone has been emotionally hurt in someway but the question is why? yes I know, some don't easily get hurt but still doesn't mean they can't get emotionally hurt. I'm the type of person that when I get hurt I do not know to react lol, reason? well because I get 'easily' hurt emotionally and that is not a good thing because you won't be thinking straight, not thinking straight means you won't know how to react, you won't know the proportion to react to, sometimes you could overreact so much that it will end up being your fault lol the human psychology in that, we all know hurt deals with emotion and I asked YNOT a guy I personally know and he told me not everything needs a reaction in fact most people do get mad when being emotionally hurt, some have have found ways they transfer that aggression to something different, unlike me or others that show their emotions outside, some people like him can just go to a private space to transfer that emotion of hurt on another thing like an object lol well because an object's feelings don't matter because.... its an object while some will just quickly replace that negative emotion with another vibe in your mind, a positive vibe, I mean they quickly change that emotion by throwing it so far away, your mind is always ready to react, it's like you train your mind to have super reflexes lol that is cool mhen, that is the type of mindset I'm training my mind towards, or some will talk it out with you, while some scream it out of their mind, I mean like arghhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!! either into a pillow or a very private space I mean that is somewhat relieving try it or there are people like me who find solace in writing their emotions out, its a nice and peaceful way of letting go emotionally it will not only assist you in calming down but it will also assist you in thinking more straight forward, but being hurt and holding it in is the worst way to express yourself trust me on that, you won't be thinking straight, you will always miscalculate your emotions will be boiled holding it in just like a bottle of unopened coke your mind will be bubbling up looking for ways to get out unexpectedly or the slightest provocation  and when it does you might not like it, everything will be spewing out and it will make you look like a deranged man, hurt comes in different ways not only through abuses it also comes through actions, trust or when you've written an 800 page essay on your system and it shuts off itself yeah so it comes at you anytime just like life they work together to take the weak minded down.

    That's why certain people in life has been placed to help you through this process, life is a journey and everybody has their own destiny, with destiny you can never do it alone, no one in the history of life has done it alone they will always come across that one person or people that will guide them through, nobody is perfect but there are certain instances that you meet someone and you see the values that they possess and you don't have you pick that up use it on yourself and upgrade yourself, it's why humans pray to meet the right people, meeting the right people gives you so much positive values, not necessarily that meeting the right people means someone rich or someone with potential to be rich but there are people that you will meet and they will give you a lesson on how life is, there are people that will impact on you negatively and you turn it to something  positive and good value and that person's story will serve as a story for you to impact positively on others as a lesson, its a scope teachers use a lot for students. So if you're the easily emotionally hurt type my opinion and views is that you should work on it, hurt can bring in so many negativity in your life, it will lure so many negative intentions, something bad bottled up inside you will lead to so many negative thoughts, anger, worry, they all come in it paves way for them, as an human being have it in mind you'll always be hurt no matter what, you must find a way to transfer it into something else, you won't grow if you allow hurt to control your life. Hurt is what turns into |anger never let it in, that's why some people need privacy to themselves because its turning to anger, there are times you read the news and you see captions like this

This man stabbed his girl because she told another guy I love you

This might seem petty and funny to some people but this is a form of hurt that has turned into anger this person could not control his emotions he never learnt how to control his emotions, he wasn't thinking straight he just automatically did what his mind told him, this is what happens when you bottle what's making you mad, its obvious they've been having issues and he possibly kept most part of it to himself, his mind will pray sweet tricks on his soul, he won't think straight, the hurt is turning to anger, instead of his mind, the hurt is telling him what to do that is very dangerous as you can see here, no matter what keeping something that's hurting you in yourself is horrible, same as letting it out negatively that's why you have to train your mind, control your mind, like I said at the beginning if you follow those procedures the rest comes at you there's no way you can overreact and do something this petty, you yourself can train your mind, your mind begins to mature automatically.

    Emotional hurt can also be self inflicting, when you aren't sure about yourself, who you are what you're doing with your life, it doubles up when you take weed or alcohol, this form has made so many people to be lost in thought for good, emotional hurt can come through depression, but that shouldn't be how it is, I personally believe everyone has his own time only the impatient drowns in sorrow, no one should take their life because you sad so many successful artists have died due depression, my point here is you should be positive of whatever situation you are, having suicide thoughts or taking your life doesn't only harm you, it harms your family, friend and even your whole lineage because they've been wiped out because you allowed emotional negativity to overwhelm you and that should not be the case. never allow inflict yourself with self damage if you're thinking negatively think of how you can help the society positively I really hope I'm doing my part, this is what i love and you all have no idea the relief this is bringing to my life and I hope to do more for the society, so you should channel negative thoughts into another thing and you watch the positive impact it brings to your life. I hope this article was beneficial to you in anyway, you can reach out to me through the comments on your own views, like I said this is an interaction with my mind so I'll always respond.